Come and learn with me


I’m Lovely Santiago.
This is my life.
A journey worth the share.
Come and learn with me.
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It was a Friday afternoon when I received a surprise e-mail from a person who used Coward, as his pen name. I don’t have any idea who sent that message to me and why he named himself as Coward. I suddenly asked myself; is this spam? Or is this a friend pranking me? Or...

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My Not-So-Ordinary 2016

Time REALLY flies so fast! I can't believe 2016 is over. Last year wasn't the bed of roses that I thought it would be but surprisingly, it's more beautiful than that. 2016 was a beautiful season and I can't thank God enough for it. So today I want to share the BEST...

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It’s time to end your story

“And they lived happily ever after,” says the tale as old as time we’re all fascinated with. Once in our lives we desired to have this kind of ending in our own stories, may it be with our families, friends or relationships. Yet we know that in life we have to face...

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If God gave me a word that ‘It’s him’. Why did it fail?

I posted my first blog a month ago about my recent break up and surprisingly I received a lot of responses from encouragements down to a few questions. (If you haven’t read it, here’s the link.) I’d like to thank the people who sent their messages and I apologize for...

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A Love That Never Was

One cold midnight of January 2012, I received a phone call from an unknown number. Marked with a lot of hesitation because of the anonymity, I thought it was an emergency so I immediately answered. “Hi Lovely!” I heard a deep nervous voice. “This is Mess. How are...

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Sweet Confession

Two months ago, my two-year relationship ended. I must admit, those were tough moments. I guess breaking up isn't an easy path to take. It was the most excruciating decision I’ve ever made in my entire life. It was as grievous as if something inside of me was tearing...

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